Dating Advice for Men - Learn to Cancel Proof Your Dates!

By Chris Benjamin in Marriage and Relationships on April 3rd, 2008

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by Chris Benjamin

For most of us, one of the crappiest things that can happen is when you finally get a date with a really HOT woman, and then she cancels on you right as you are getting in the shower to get ready for the big event. That sucks sweaty socks. But it’s a fact of life.

So is there anything you can DO about it? Well, as a matter of fact, there is. The thing is, most guys don’t know this, and this is one of the FUNDAMENTALS of dating advice - how to AVOID the flake! So let’s talk about how.

The first thing you can do to PREVENT the flake before it happens is to tell her - flat as a pancake - that you HATE flakes. Tell her that you are a busy guy and that if she really has no intention of being there to just not make the plans, because your time is valuable.

Most guys feel that way, but they don’t like to SAY that because it comes off as forceful and might actually put some women off. Well - so be it. I would rather have them say forget it before “it” actually begins, then to have them cancel plans on me after they were made.

Saying this to a woman, though, is actually saying much MORE than “I hate flakes”. What it is really saying to her underneath is that you value your OWN time, yourself, and if she is not going to do the same then walk away now. That tells her you have a high status, and that is attractive to women.

On to the next situation. The day you are supposed to have your date, she calls you up and wants to cancel because her mother returned from the dead. This is the perfect time to use some Cocky Comedy on her and recoup the situation. Say to her, “Ok, fine. But when are you gonna make it up to me?”

This is when you bust on her a little bit. Now don’t do it in a really bitingly sarcastic way or let her know in any way that she has hurt you. That will turn her off and also lower your alpha male status in her eyes.

Now another method some of the PUAs of the day use to keep their Flake Out Percentage at an all-time low is to actually BE the one to flake. Counter-intuitive, I know. But, David Deangelo says that if you do that, what you are really doing is making ANOTHER date with her right there on the phone, and adding fuel to the fire of her anticipation. Which is ALWAYS a good thing.

Most of the time, your problems with women are created because of your own WUSSY behavior. I mean, you are never going to get to the point where you NEVER have trouble again. You may as well say that it’s never going to rain again. But you CAN get to the point where you are on the ball and actually preventing most of the problems before they happen!

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