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First of all, if you’re going for a one-night stand, there’s one thing you need to know — You won’t always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.

You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.

But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.

The things that I look in spotting them are in the way how they dressed, how much make-up they put on their face and other things that relates to how they look physically. Remember that there is a reason why women exert a lot of effort in order to look beautiful.

The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn’t always true but is generally the case.

You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.

Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you’ll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Now you have to take this in mind — Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.

You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple “hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?” is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.

To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This is against her “rules” and will force her to keep you at a distance. You’re also going to need logistical information, so that you can figure out how to get her back to your place when the time comes.

The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.

You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.

This is how it will works although it may sound that counter intuitive.

You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.

Some won’t and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.

You don’t want to put a lot of effort and time with the wrong girl or to pick the right girl and then mess it up after a very long interaction.

It will just be a waste of time.

Last 5 posts by Vin DiCarlo

• Managing Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 2 - July 22nd, 2008
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• How to Deal with Male Competition when Meeting Women-II - June 24th, 2008
• Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part I - June 18th, 2008

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