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Here are the 3 reasons for this.

The first reason is may be new to you - being socially proactive.

I remember the first time I started weight lifting, I don’t have an upper pectoral muscles - the muscle right at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Although I have but it was so small and weak and it took me three weeks to notice them. I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms every time I worked them out.

Then I can now handle the big amounts of weight right after I have reached the tripping point in the development of my muscle. The mind is in that way too.

Developing your new neuro-pathways will take time. So with the level of your skills, you need to push yourself harder from day-to-day.

Thinking that meeting women requires a lot of hard work can cause a social fatigue. And that is the second reason.

Actually this is more on having an overwhelmed feeling and has somewhat a little different from “fatigue.”

When you feel overwhelmed by something, it can frazzle your mind, and lead to a sort of depression, or discouragement, which may feel like exhaustion if you’re not deeply aware. It’s like your body is saying “ugh, it’s too much work. I give up before I can even begin.”

This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.

It was daunting to think that I had to DO all this stuff just to have quality women in my life.

The last reason for feeling exhausted in the dating and mating game is that you are spending too much mental energy in the wrong places, wasting your focus on stuff that isn’t useful to pickup.

99 percent of men gets it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can’t tell, because most men after suffering from a few harsh rejections learn to hide their inner “stuff.”

But of course we can’t oppose to the reality that when a guy is attracted to a girl, he is trying his best just to win her or at least know if the women likes him too.

Think about the messages we get from the media, our parents and friends, and women - it’s the man’s role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN sex from her.

Ridiculous!

I see some advertisement of a guy bungling around to a cute girl trying to impress her, and looking like a fool while the girl giggles like she’s better because she is woman. - I hate that kind of thing.

Ok enough ranting… the point is that most guys are screwed when it comes to being in control of their dating lives.

But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.

You need to get the most out of your body and mind so that it can lead you to the highest level of your interaction with women and that’s what’s really attractive.

A GUY AT HIS BEST.

Last 5 posts by Vin DiCarlo

• Managing Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 2 - July 22nd, 2008
• How to Manage Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 1 - July 17th, 2008
• Useful Mindsets in Dealing with Male Competition - I - June 25th, 2008
• How to Deal with Male Competition when Meeting Women-II - June 24th, 2008
• Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part I - June 18th, 2008

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