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It is taught to young men that their physical urges is crude and silly, and that women are just doing a favor to sleep with them.

“Doofus dad” syndrome is another societal factor that I’m going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This brings to an opinion that women are “better,” and that their time is more important than yours.

If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.

But here’s the thing - if you are giving a woman too much time, you won’t be present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.

When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.

After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I’m only giving a smaller amounts of my time.

This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.

This make my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - and I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”

You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.

The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don’t recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.

No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don’t spend more time that you want.

Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.

Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to take up in another newsletter.

It’s a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.

Remember that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.

It doesn’t mean that you can “keep” the women if you invest all your time with her.

I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you’re willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.

You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.

You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.

That’s why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.

And no, we don’t intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.

Vin

Last 5 posts by Vin DiCarlo

• How to Manage Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 1 - July 17th, 2008
• Useful Mindsets in Dealing with Male Competition - I - June 25th, 2008
• How to Deal with Male Competition when Meeting Women-II - June 24th, 2008
• Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part I - June 18th, 2008
• Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part II - June 15th, 2008

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